To allow in this back-and-forth communication, you must be an energetic matchup.
First, sit with self and observe upon your beliefs about communicating with someone in the spiritual realm and your emotions about your beliefs. As long as you are holding onto fear, doubt, or shame around this, you are your own blockade. This goes for everything you are creating in your reality, but this focus is upon your loved one who has passed and you developing the ability to communicate with them.
As you are practicing an even energetic exchange around communicating with your loved one, there is an even flow back-and-forth. This feels safe, secure, and free.
When you notice low emotions on your behalf, sit with these to become a safe place for these low emotions after you are first tethered here into the safety and security of your soul connection. Evolving through these low emotions is part of you developing this ability, just like anything else you are practicing even energetic exchanges with.
As you are balancing here between a state of surrender and appreciation, you are floating in your flow. You are open to receive. With consistency, this will be become natural and you are forming new beliefs and emotions, which support those beliefs.
You are creating from the new now as you are operating from this aligned state. This flow state of alignment is the path to receive. The blockades have been removed.
Meditation and auto writing are the tools here to have this pen pal relationship with your loved one. You can certainly develop the ability to hear your loved one as you are interacting with others or going about daily activities as well. The sky is the limit here! What you are open to is what you will match up to receive.
Divinely channeled for the public by Joy Foster with HighVibesWithJoy.com