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Someone You Love Died

   This page of divinely channeled messages is dedicated to soothing the heart of the reader by ensuring each that their loved one who has died is, in fact, in safekeeping as well as how to feel comfort within around the concept of death, in general. 

Where Is My Loved One Now?

Can They Hear Me When I Talk to Them?

Your loved one's light goes on. It has not been extinguished. In fact, it is but an impossibility for one’s light to extinguish. Does it change form? Yes.


A soul’s time in the physical is an experience to evolve through their emotions. This is how one creates their reality. As one is in the spiritual dimension, the heavens, they eagerly await their next re-emergence into the physical. It is quite exciting to plan out one’s own soul’s mission.


When one re-emerges back into the spiritual after each go-around, they serve as a support, a guide of spiritual nature, for those who long for them. These are persons they had a close bond with and are most likely grieving this loss in a variety of ways. 


This soul, who is now a focused energy in the heavens, will provide support for their loved ones in the physical in ways that are a matchup for each to receive. This can be lights flickering, familiar scents, songs in proper timing, waves of blissful energy one can feel throughout their body, as well as communicating through written and verbal conversation as one develops this divine channeling ability.


Each is a portion of Divine Source Energy. When in the physical, this is Divine having a human experience in order to create their reality by means of evolving through their own emotions. When in the spiritual, it is one operating as their wholeness as their higher self.


There is not a limited window of time to connect in with your deceased loved one before they re-emerge back into the physical as a concurrent soul’s mission. The human mind cannot comprehend this in full form, but one is in all places at once and time does not exist. That is a human concept.


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Can They Hear Me When I Talk to Them?

Can They Hear Me When I Talk to Them?

Yes, dear ones. Your loved ones receive your messages for them. They send you messages as well. Be open to receive the relief this provides for your dear heart. 


If you have not yet developed the ability to communicate back-and-forth in conversation, verbally or written, assign a sign to your loved one. Think it. Say it. Write it. This is your intention.


For example, you may assign a certain color of bird to a particular loved one. You are showing here that you are open to receive and this type of bird is serving as your permission slip to receive a sign from your loved one that they are a support for you.


Practice surrender mode here with this intention, so you are a vibrational match to receive. No need to pressure yourself to receive this sign. Let this be a beautiful gift. 


You wouldn’t demand someone you love provide flowers for you on your special day. Would you? That would not be meaningful. You would love to be surprised. This would provide much delightment to your heart. Allow yourself to receive the sign in the same way. 


You are feeling your way through all of this, dear ones.


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Turning Pain into Purpose.

What If This Would’ve Turned Out Differently?

Spread your wings and fly, figuratively speaking. It doesn’t feel good to be wringing your hands in angst about your loved one passing. Honor these emotions. Honor your loved one. Honor yourself. Take a deep breath and let’s move forward. Yes?


Let’s focus on a special time you shared with your loved one. How did that feel? Let’s construct these figurative wings out of this emotion. You are the creator of your reality. Let’s turn this pain into purpose. 


This loved one was a part of your reality for a reason. This loved one served as a mirror for your alignment. As you focus upon the emotion you felt as you shared special times with your loved one, you see this individual left a set of footprints on your heart. Wear these proudly. 


Honor the special times you shared with your dear loved one by recreating that emotion and calling in your loved one in remembrance. Let your loved one know how special they are to you and how you are continuing to carry this sentiment forward. 


Allow this loved one’s spirit to join you as you experience this emotion. You can think, speak, or write a thank you to your loved one. Include the name you used for your loved one. This is their invitation to join you. Honor them in this way and honor self in this way. 


You are deserving of a peaceful existence after your loved one has passed from the physical plane into the spiritual plane.


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What If This Would’ve Turned Out Differently?

What If This Would’ve Turned Out Differently?

What If This Would’ve Turned Out Differently?

Be gentle with self as you feel this crowded sensation of doubt here within the confines of your mind. Honor this emotion of low nature as it arises. The mind struggles to grasp the concept of someone you love no longer existing in the physical. This emotion is presenting itself to you in order to evolve through it as part of you expanding your consciousness awareness in the physical realm.


It’s hard to fathom that your loved one would make this choice to re-emerge back into the spiritual. The truth is that time does not truly exist. This is how humans comprehend their physical reality – this concept of time and space. When one dies, they are not pulled under. There is not a force that makes this decision for them. It seems hard to imagine your loved one would choose this route. It’s quite heavy and slow in the physical plane. This is for the purpose of evolving through these low emotions. Let’s make peace here with the concept that you will not comprehend this all in full form until you are back in your full knowingness: when you re-emerge back into the spiritual.


Time, as humans know it, suspends as one is completing their human lifeline. Each turns toward the light on their own accord. This is the end of this soul’s mission. 


There is a cleansing that occurs. One does not carry remnants of one lifeline into another. Each is an authentic experience. 


One reviews what they accomplished on their soul’s mission. They feel quite proud of self. There is no shame nor judgment, even on behalf of those who played the part of a disruptor and caused much harm to others. They fulfilled the role they agreed to in order to provide contrast upon self and others for the purpose of evolving. They made these agreements with others as they were planning out their destinies.


When this unpleasant emotion of regret fills your mind, honor this emotion. Anchor here into your soul connection. This is your safety and security. Become your safe place for these emotions of low nature to be soothed by you. This is you evolving on your soul’s mission, dear ones.


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Why Am I Still Here Then?

What If This Would’ve Turned Out Differently?

Why Am I Still Here Then?

Locate your heart center and allow yourself to feel into the safety and security you are receiving here, so you may be open to receive these divinely channeled words from an aligned state.


Your loved one served as a mirror for your alignment as your exchanges felt good and a disruptor to deliver emotions of low nature in order for you to evolve through them when it felt subpar. Your loved one played a role for you and you for them. Each agrees to play these parts for others when they are planning out their own destiny within the heavenly realms before re-emergence back into the physical plane.


You are still evolving on your personal soul’s mission in the physical. That, all of my dears, is why you are still here. This grief you are experiencing is serving as contrast. This contrast has been delivered to you in order to evolve through these low emotions. This is part of the refining process. This is a portion of how one expands their own consciousness awareness. 


Be gentle with self as you are leading your mind from this aligned state. As part of this refining process, you are seeing and feeling into the value of you becoming the safe place for your low emotions to land. You are soothing these low emotions, which are simply every version of you that have felt these low emotions. You are your safe place for you and that is a beautiful sentiment.


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Now What?

What If This Would’ve Turned Out Differently?

Why Am I Still Here Then?

Let’s set your focus upon your heart. Shall we? Emotions rise to the surface. They come in waves. Sometimes, you feel balanced and secure. Other times, life feels very unpredictable and you are questioning self. Honor yourself through all of this. Do not second-guess self nor try to push off these emotions. These emotions are visitors. Sit with them. Approve of them as they are in your midst. Make peace here within self about self.


As you feel enjoyment, your mind may send you an emotion of guilt. As you are wallowing, your mind may send you an emotion of not measuring up. These emotions can feel quite confusing. That is another emotion to honor self around.


Let’s make peace with all of this, dear ones. You deserve a peaceful existence as you are continuing on your destined path. There’s no reason to go without. Sit with the pain as the pain visits. Make peace here with this pain, so your days can be filled with peace. You are each deserving of this peace. Afford this and grant this gift here upon self.


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How Do I Know My Loved One Is Here with Me?

How Do I Know My Loved One Is Here with Me?

How Do I Know My Loved One Is Here with Me?

As you are receiving from your loved one in the spiritual realm, you are using your intuition. The mind is a great support for you, but it is fear-based. Tune in here to your soul. You are the spirit of you. Invite this dear mind of yours to sit next to you as you are tuning into the safety and security your soul connection provides.


See your mind next to you as your assistant. Now, mind is following your lead and it’s no longer leading you from this fear-based default setting, which has caused you to doubt self.


Now, you are able to create from the new. This new experience of you receiving from your loved one, who is now a focused energy in the spiritual realm, is able to enter your consciousness awareness.


Allow the body to be on board with this new development. You can gently tap or massage your heart center. This shows the body, as well as the mind, to step aside and follow you as you are operating from safety and security while tuning into your soul connection. Let’s incorporate your breaths: slow and controlled inhale through the nose, exhale through the mouth. You are synchronizing here as you are basking in the glow of your soul.


Communicate appreciation to your loved one and share with this individual you are open to receive. Thank your loved one for providing peace here within your vessel, for pulling strings on your behalf for you, and for guiding you from the spiritual realm – the heavens.


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My Heart Hurts. I Miss Them.

How Do I Know My Loved One Is Here with Me?

How Do I Know My Loved One Is Here with Me?

Yes. We, Divine Source Energy, are soothing you. Tune in here to your soul connection through your heart center, so you may become one with this and receive this soothing for your pained heart. Allow yourself to be immersed in this divine love. Surrender here. Release the pain. Set it down and open self up to receive this soothing.


Begin humming. Through this somatic experience, you are having an even energetic exchange with us, Divine. You are handing your pain over and, in turn, you are receiving the soothing. You are making peace here within; therefore, you are receiving peace in exchange.


Allow your loved one to walk along this path you are creating energetically with your humming. Feel into the energetic transference. This is you creating from the new. As you are surrendering, you are open to receive. You are developing a new way to connect with your loved one. 


Notice the love your loved one is saturating you with as you are showing your mind this path you are creating by means of your humming. Go back-and-forth with your loved one in this loving exchange. 


Show your body the relief you are receiving through this energetic exchange. Show your mind how peaceful this new way of connection with your loved one feels.


Allow this path you are creating by means of your humming to be the signal of comfort you are now associating with your loved one. You are releasing the pain and receiving comfort in exchange as you move forward in trust.


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What Is It Like to Be Dead?

How Do I Know My Loved One Is Here with Me?

What Is It Like to Be Dead?

It is exhilarating! It is pure bliss, comfort, at home, one with your wholeness. 


You see, this human existence in the physical plane is a journey, but it is a temporary journey. There is much value in this journey. 


We, Divine Source Energy, are not presenting here that one should skip over this human experience in order to become back into a blissful state. We want to provide peace of mind that your loved one is, in fact, well in the state of no longer being in the physical state and realm with you.


Each plans out their own destined path. This is called a soul’s mission. Souls agree to play parts to deliver contrast in order for one to evolve through emotions of low nature as well as rendezvous with each other as they are practicing even energetic exchanges with each other. This feels quite delightful to one’s heart.


Each soul‘s mission is for the purpose of evolvement. Each is expanding their own consciousness awareness. As you are grieving or curious about your loved one who is no longer in the physical, you are evolving through emotions on your soul’s mission. You see, it’s all part of it. They are still playing a part for you. What a gift! 


We encourage each of you to develop your intuition to gain peace, safety, and security here within your physical experience. Allow this loved one to serve as a bridge in order for you to receive and enhance this physical existence for you.


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What Is Heaven Like?

Communicating With Your Loved One

What Is It Like to Be Dead?

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Serene. Peace. Unconditional love. Approval. Acceptance. Inspiration. Expansion. These are a small portion of what the human mind can conceive about the heavenly realms. You each know it very well. You are just having an authentic experience here in this physical realm.


Evolving and expansion is always occurring for each, but in the heavens one does not experience emotions of low nature. 


There are workshops each attends. The love of learning is pronounced vastly in the heavens. 


Each is connected to their human counterpart in the physical as they reside in the heavens as their higher self. They are monitoring and assisting. 


They are serving as guides of spiritual nature for those who are a match up in the physical to receive.


There is a planning out of one’s destiny for a concurrent soul’s mission. Objectives for this soul’s mission are determined in order to evolve through emotions as part of creating one’s personal reality. Agreements are made with other souls to play parts for each other as players in each other’s stories of evolvement. These are authentic experiences.


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Communicating With Your Loved One

Communicating With Your Loved One

Communicating With Your Loved One

To allow in this back-and-forth communication, you must be an energetic matchup.


First, sit with self and observe upon your beliefs about communicating with someone in the spiritual realm and your emotions about your beliefs. As long as you are holding onto fear, doubt, or shame around this, you are your own blockade. This goes for everything you are creating in your reality, but this focus is upon your loved one who has passed and you developing the ability to communicate with them.


As you are practicing an even energetic exchange around communicating with your loved one, there is an even flow back-and-forth. This feels safe, secure, and free.


When you notice low emotions on your behalf, sit with these to become a safe place for these low emotions after you are first tethered here into the safety and security of your soul connection. Evolving through these low emotions is part of you developing this ability, just like anything else you are practicing even energetic exchanges with.


As you are balancing here between a state of surrender and appreciation, you are floating in your flow. You are open to receive. With consistency, this will be become natural and you are forming new beliefs and emotions, which support those beliefs. 


You are creating from the new now as you are operating from this aligned state. This flow state of alignment is the path to receive. The blockades have been removed.


Meditation and auto writing are the tools here to have this pen pal relationship with your loved one. You can certainly develop the ability to hear your loved one as you are interacting with others or going about daily activities as well. The sky is the limit here! What you are open to is what you will match up to receive.


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Your Last Interaction Together

Communicating With Your Loved One

Communicating With Your Loved One

Are you recounting your last conversation or time spent together with regret? Maybe you wish a different scenario had you known it would’ve been the last interaction with your loved one.


You are having an authentic experience in this human experience, as was your loved one. Let’s honor your emotions that come up about this. These emotions are visitors. Do not absorb them and use them as your identity. Practice being an observer of your emotions. They are serving a grand purpose for you as you are evolving in the physical.


As you calibrate to the awareness that you are the spirit of you using this mind and body as tools to evolve on your soul’s mission, you are anchored here into your soul connection. This feels like safety and security. From here, you are developing the awareness to be the safe place for these low emotions that arise for you, which are simply all versions of you that have felt this low emotion circling back around into your awareness – visiting you.


As you are aligned to your safety and security, let’s allow peace to flood in as you are making peace here with any regrets your mind presents to you. Pick one special time you shared with your loved one. Feel the emotion of that special time and form a new neural connection here with this intention. You are creating from the new now. You are a deliberate creator. You are stepping into your power. You are identifying with peace, with safety, with security.


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Do I Visit the Memorial Marker to Show Them I Care?

While you certainly can visit your loved one’s grave or where the ashes were distributed or hold an urn which contains the ashes, this is strictly for you. You see, your loved one is there beside you as you think about them, talk about them, or practice connecting in with them.


It is not to feel obligated to visit the remains of their earthly body. That is not you floating in your flow. Low emotions, such as obligation, are a blockade. It is similar to a sink not draining due to a buildup of hair or food particles.


Allow yourself to rendezvous with this precious energy of your loved one. Feel the freedom in this. Surrender here in order to feel free and balance that with appreciation as you are feeling free in this state.


Express appreciation to your loved one for the part they played for you as they were in the physical. Express appreciation for the part they are playing for you now as they are in the spiritual. Thank them for their guidance, their protection, the pulling strings on your behalf, and the bridge they are serving for you to connect into the spiritual.


This is a sacred gift they are sharing with you. Ask your loved one to instill bliss and peace here within your mind and vessel. Notice upon physical sensations you experience. Allow this to motivate you to continue this back-and-forth exchange.


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How Can I Be Sure It’s My Loved One Communicating with Me?

Intend it. You are the creator of your reality. You get to decide who you are and how you are. This is all based on your beliefs and your emotions around those beliefs.


If you have lingering fears or doubts about receiving from your loved one in the spiritual realm but your desire to receive is larger than your doubt, clarity will be yours. Gently soothe these low emotions while you are walking forward in trust. This desire to receive from your loved one was placed on your path. This is your permission slip to break yourself free from these fears and doubts.


Celebrate yourself as you are making progress. This desire to communicate is a gift you are giving yourself. Now, you are a matchup to feel this relief, this satisfaction, this blissful state as you break this barrier and develop this confidence.


Play games with your loved one. Make it fun and serendipitous! Call on your loved one to send you good fortune today or a surprise that reminds you of them. Keep this line of communication open through the peace this is providing to your experience. 


Keep in mind, if you are asking for proof, you are doubting. That is not a matchup to receive. When you are floating in your flow around this, you are receiving. Your nervous system is allowing you to perceive this extra sensory perception into your awareness.

 

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Gaining Closure

Picking Up the Pieces

Some operate in the belief system that closure is needed in order to step into the next chapter without carrying what was needed to release in the previous chapter. What this is, is peace of mind.


We will inform you that your life events are not packages that are sealed and set upon a shelf. You will be practicing emotional regulation all of your days. In fact, this is how you are creating your reality moment by moment. Regulating your emotions in this moment is creating what is upcoming.


Grief over losing a loved one will come in waves. Emotions of low nature can resurface many years later in unexpected ways. Just like you cannot control or accurately predict the weather in all circumstances, you are not expected to control or predict waves of emotions, which are delivered to you by means of your thoughts. You are having an authentic experience, each and every one of you. Be gentle with self as you are evolving on your personal soul’s mission. Evolving through the emotions of grief and loss is part of your soul’s mission. You are right on track!


Allow peace of mind to be with you in every chapter. You can even proclaim this as your life’s motto. You are leading your dear mind as you are operating from your heart center, which is your soul connection. This feels like safety and security. You are making peace here with anything that isn’t a matchup to feeling safe and secure. You are leading your mind from a place of peace.


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Picking Up the Pieces

Allow a Piece of Them to Live on Within You

Picking Up the Pieces

Picking up the pieces of your broken heart after your loved one has passed away is our focus in this manuscript. This is a complex subject. It cannot be performed in one afternoon. You are learning to be quite gentle and patient with self as you are moving through emotions that arise for you.


You might feel relief and then a tidal wave of grief, overwhelm, and sadness can come crashing into your experience. Let’s not pressure self to have this all pieced together now or on a set schedule of time. You are having an authentic experience, dear ones.


How would you wish your loved one interacted with you as you are feeling quite low? May you grant this gentleness and caring attribute here for self by self. You are deserving of this. Would you agree? Step into this for yourself. Grant yourself this gift today. Claim this reward on your behalf. Be gentle here with your own heart.


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Allow a Piece of Them to Live on Within You

Allow a Piece of Them to Live on Within You

Allow a Piece of Them to Live on Within You

Honor your loved one by allowing a piece of them to live on within you. How this can be carried out is to carry the sentiment of appreciation you have for the special times you shared with your loved one in your heart. Allow the grief to gently transform into appreciation for the memories you carry with you. Allow regret to morph into love you carry within for the fondness you shared with your loved one.


Rather than believing you are going without in the absence of your loved one, adopt this fullness as you are carrying out this shift. You are deserving of feeling full. Allow your loved one in through this shifted perspective. Honor your dear loved one in this way by allowing a piece of them to live on within you.


Embrace this opportunity, dear ones. This is in your capacity. Carry this out on your own behalf. Be well in these words as they provide comfort and upliftment to your heart.


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